![]() When a person has no responsibility for another’s death, they may feel powerless and helpless. This is sometimes called survivor’s guilt. Self-blame and guilt are common reactions to a loved one’s death. My friends say it isn’t my fault, but to be fair, the last time we spoke was on my birthday.“If I hadn't done XYZ, he’d still be alive.” I even had nightmares about her dying in my arms. Now I blame myself, asking myself internally: “why weren’t you there?” “why didn’t you help her?”. Some of those texts were scary.saying no one could stop her from giving in, running away and being arrested. I felt guilty, especially after reading her final text messages to our other friend, who’s across the states right now. The last time I saw her in person was in August last year at a amusement park (it’s been late night calls and texts from that point on). I’m very devastated and kept in touch with our friends (we had a group of 4), to make sure they were okay. Ironically, my father died the day before 8 years ago. My best friend for 6 years ended her life last week, three days after my birthday. Just wanted to get this off my chest, recommended by my mom. Post: 26280 ⬆️ | My girlfriend left me on the day I was proposing without any explanation **The moderators of this subreddit will set aside their opinions while moderating We want to make a place where anybody can get things off their chest without any sort of limitations. This sub was made to fulfill the original purpose of /r/offmychest. If you need a pick me up also look at these subreddits: This is a place for those that need support. ![]() All posts, besides blatant trolls or excessive circlejerking, are allowed and we will not take them down. If you are in need of one, the original /r/offmychest maintains one (Mostly for common safe spaces such as LGBT, Domestic Abuse, Sexual Abuse). This subreddit is not considered a safe space for any particular group. We also heavily encourage our users to follow the reddiquette Other Information This is a bannable offensive with zero tolerance.
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